Let Life Live Through You: A Reminder to Embracing Change

Change is a constant in life, and often, it feels like a whirlwind turning everything upside down. I recently came across a quote from the book I was reading “Forty Rules of Love” that really resonated with me: “Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead, let life live through you. And do not worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know that the side you are used to is better than the one to come?“

This quote encourages us to embrace change rather than resist it. It’s natural to feel scared or uneasy when things start to shift. We are creatures of habit, and the familiar feels safe. But change is an essential part of growth. By resisting it, we might miss out on new opportunities and experiences that could enrich our lives.

When life seems to be turning upside down, it’s easy to panic and think the worst. But this quote reminds us to pause and consider: how do we know the new side won’t be better? Often, the greatest opportunities arise from the most unexpected changes. What seems like a setback today could be the beginning of something wonderful tomorrow.

Letting life live through us means going with the flow and trusting the process. It’s about having faith that things will work out, even if we can’t see how right now. But, this doesn’t mean we should be passive or avoid taking action. Instead, it means being open to possibilities and not clinging too tightly to our current situation.

In my own life, I’ve found that the most significant and rewarding changes often started with discomfort and uncertainty. By embracing change and letting go of resistance, I’ve discovered new passions, met incredible people, and grown in ways I never imagined.

Embracing change isn’t always easy, but it can lead to wonderful new chapters in our lives. So, the next time change comes your way, try not to resist it. Embrace it with an open heart and mind. Who knows? The side you’re moving towards might just be better than the one you’re leaving behind.

The Joy of Helping Others: Finding Happiness Through Kindness

Life is good when you are happy, but life is much better when others are happy because of you. Have you ever noticed how a simple act of kindness can brighten your day? Have you ever noticed how good you feel after helping someone? Isn’t it like a warm glow that starts in your heart and spreads throughout your whole being?

Helping others or showing a simple act of happiness is one of the simplest ways to find true happiness. It is more than just a temporary feeling; it’s a deep sense of fulfillment that enriches your life. When we focus on spreading happiness, it creates a ripple effect. One good deed can lead to another, and soon, a wave of kindness and joy is set in motion.

Spreading happiness doesn’t have to be grand or costly. Even small gestures can make a big difference in someone’s life and bring joy to both the giver and the receiver. Like listening to someone when they are in need, Volunterring in good deed, or sometime just showing some kindness even works. The happiness derived from helping others often lasts longer than the happiness we get from material things. The joy you give to others will often come back to you, making your heart a little brighter and your smile a little wider.

Life’s greatest joys often come not from what we do for ourselves, but from the happiness we bring to others.         

The Power of Perspective: How Our Thoughts Shape Our Feelings

Sarah and Mike, They both applied for the same job and received rejection emails on the same day. Sarah, initially devastated, thought, “I’m not good enough; I’ll never succeed.” Mike, on the other hand, interpreted the rejection as an opportunity for growth, thinking, “I can learn from this and improve for the next interview.”

Have you ever wondered why two people can experience the same event yet react differently? It turns out, our feelings aren’t directly linked to external events but are rather a product of our own thoughts about those events. Let’s explore this saying and unravel the profound impact our perspectives can have on our emotions.

Consider a rainy day. Some may find it gloomy and depressing, while others might see it as a chance to cozy up indoors with a good book. The rain itself isn’t responsible for the contrasting emotions; it’s our individual thoughts that color the experience. “Same event, different emotions – all due to the power of their thoughts.

By shifting your perspective and adopting a more positive mindset, you can take control of your emotions and navigate life’s ups and downs with greater ease.

Now, let’s delve into the concept further with another example. Imagine a crowded subway where someone accidentally steps on your foot. The external event, the foot-stepping, is neutral, but your emotional reaction depends on your interpretation. If you think it was intentional, frustration may arise. However, if you assume it was accidental, you might feel more understanding.

Understanding that our feelings originate from our interpretations can be empowering. It means we have the ability to change our emotional responses by shifting our perspectives. The next time you face a challenging situation, try to pause and reflect on your thoughts. You might just find that altering your mindset can transform the way you feel. After all, it’s not the events that dictate our emotions; it’s the stories we tell ourselves about those events.

Thought of the day

Life is a great teacher and it has many lessons to teach us. But it is up to us whether we want to learn these lessons or not. We can either choose to ignore them and suffer the consequences, or we can take the time to reflect on our experiences and learn from them. Life teaches us about resilience, courage, patience, determination, and much more. It is important that we take the time to listen carefully and absorb these valuable lessons so that we can apply them in our lives.

What do you think?

Believe in you.

Sometimes all you need is one person who believes in you but it is not mentioned anywhere that this person should be someone else, it can be you too.

Believe in yourself before you look for someone else who can believe in you.