She is Marry Ann Bevan who was known as the “ugliest woman in the world” but when you know her life you’ll call her the “most beautiful person in the world.”
Marry Ann was born in London, in 1874, she had an ordinary life as a young girl. She married a man named Thomas Bevan, and had four children. After some years of marriage, Marry Ann was hit with a rare disease named Acromegaly due to which she had abnormal growth and facial distortion. After the death of her husband, she was left with no breadwinner in the house, accumulating debts and the financial needs of her 4 children. She decided to enter the humiliating contest titled “ugliest woman in the world” in the hope of winning the prize money which could help her family and she did win. Later she was hired by a circus, which was a “freak show”. She toured different cities where people came to laugh and humiliate her and would call her ugly names. She endured the ridicule of others to raise her children and give them a better quality of life. Marry Ann kept working until she died in 1933.
Many of you might see this as just an ordinary story but for me, it is really inspiring. It takes a lot of courage to stand in the spotlight facing people ready to humiliate you for your look, for your dress, call you with ugly names and all on your face. If our eyes could see souls instead of bodies, Mary Ann would have been the most beautiful woman in the world.Isn’t it?
I would lo to hear your thoughts if any you want to share.
Hey There!!! It’s being a long time since I posted anything new. My job kept me too busy that I couldn’t make my mind to write anything. But the job is the job you can not say no to work unless you are a prince of some kingdom and you have enough money to shower it overhead (Imagining if I would), but I am not so, I have to do work. But, I am happy with my work because this is the best of my interest and I am enjoying doing my job. however, sometimes it makes me exhausted and makes me think “just left everything behind and go out on a long vacation” in simple words “take a break for while”. Sadly, I can’t take it for another month. 😦
I am feeling now that taking a break from your daily routine is really important. Just a few breaths in the open fresh air. Blank mind for a while. No questions, No answers, No worries, No planning, No single thought. I think every one of you feels the same sometimes. We all need a break sometimes and we should take it. This weekend I did the same. I pressed a pause button of my life and spend some me-time spend with nothing in mind about tomorrow.
Some prefer to go to sleep when they feel exhausted. Some others prefer to go outside for a walk. Or, some just simply go to talk to their loved ones. My personal relaxing keys are: listening to 80s 90s Classic and Jazz Music, Walking in Garden/Park, Dancing in personal space (the best), and Long bike ride with no destination. I really spend this last weekend same. Feeling so relaxed and fresh today.
If you feel something is wrong, something is jumbled. if you feel tired for no reason or exhausted from work just take a short break and do nothing for a moment. Let your soul rest a bit. let your mind calm a little and then do what you love to do, what makes you happy and relax. I am sure you will feel everything new the next day.
So, How are you doing today?
Share your thoughts, how do you deal with such a situation where you feel exhausted and frustrated with your daily routine or any work?
Today I completed the first goal of achieving 100 followers. It simply feels amazing when you see 100 people out there following your page and reading your blog. I can’t express much what I am feeling right now. 5 years or 10 years back I could not imagine myself Writing blogs ever or writing anything, I never thought about it in my entire past life. Still, I know I am not that good at writing, I am not that good at playing with words but one thing I know that I am doing it and I am definitely going to be good at it along with time.
Thank you so much for your all support and for showing interest in my blogs, without seeing you all following it would be hard to keep on this track. Now I know there are fellows out there reading my blogs and getting something from them so, I can push myself to become better and honest to share a valuable words with all of you.
Thank You So Much All Of You!!!
I have been busy for the last few weeks in my job and unable to post any new blog, but I promise to come soon with some new topics.
Meanwhile, you can enjoy reading some of the old blog here:
money, Time, and Energy- It is very rare that you find all of the three together at once. Different stage of life has different needs, responsibilities, and life issues and we have to maintain our focus accordingly. Let discuss a bit about each stage of life.
The first stage of life – Young Age. When our priorities and need are simple and well settled. We are focused on learning things at this age. We have schools to go to, friends to play with, and family who take care of us. We have all the time to do so many things and all the energy to never stop doing fun but, we are depending on our parents for money and other needful resources for living. This age has an only need to gain knowledge and become strong so when we enter the next stage of life we have much information to stand on its responsibilities.
Adult age or Mid age of life is where we take a charge of our own life. We start working to earn and achieve our goals and dreams. In the finding of money, we get too busy that we don’t find much time for our personal lives and families. We get more focused on securing our future and completing our responsibilities towards our family and society. At this age, we get all the energy to work hard and more to earn all money so we can add more assets in our life that we think can make our life living easy and convenient, but we can’t find time to enjoy those conveniences.
The age when we have all the time in the world and all the money that we have earned day and night but now, we lack the energy that we had once. We always feel tired and pains in the body never are less. We got money and time but, we have no energy left to do anything much with them now.
However, everyone’s life is not the same and things happen differently for everyone but if you see with the average perspective of life you will find it similar to the above picture.
How do you see these different stages of life? What are you focused on; Saving money, time, or energy?
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What a good day today! I am so happy that I am back to my early morning routine going to the park for running and exercising. It feels so good, after a long time of spending time at home due to lockdown now things are changing in good shape. Hoping the days of fear of this virus infection pass soon.
The other good news is that I have achieved 500 total likes on my site today. WooHoo!!! 🤩 Yesterday I was talking to Tammy Wynette (5thgenerationgirl) on her achievement of 500 all-time views. She has posted how she started blogging after encouraging by her grandson, even when she has no good relations with the world of technology. I was sharing with her that how it feels so amazing and encouraging seeing those achievements number in a notification and today morning I got the same thing.
However, these numbers don’t define that how good or bad my posts and writing are, but yet they encourage me to keep walking on this path. So, I would like to say a big Thank You from my deep heart that you all have shown interest in my posts and always encourage me to write more and more. THANK YOU SO MUCH. I promise I will keep doing my part as best I can do. My motive is only to share what I have or what I know. since I started reading books I understand that we don’t have to go through every phase of life to experience or learn from it, by sharing our experiences and knowledge we can always help each other to learn more.
Thank you everyone once again. Stay connected and keep showing your interest. I will try my best to provide you good readings. Stay safe.