Welcome me on Twitter

Hello everyone,

I created an account on Twitter last week and am amazed to see the kind of reception from fellow writers and like-minded people. In less than a week I’ve built relationships with 60+ good people there so far. The people are really supportive and kind. Hope to meet you there too. Excited to use this new platform to share my words and connect with new people around the world.

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Tip for practicing self-care! #2022

Q.- Are there ways you maintain a work-life balance?
A.- The best way to maintain a balance between your work and personal life is to schedule things out. I have got the habit to update my calendar for my personal events and time off and the same way I block my calendar for my work. And since I have adapted that habit I can see this helping me balance my life pretty well.

Q.- How do you deal with stress or burnout?
A.- Well, with the whole lot of things going around us these days stress is common. Covid-19, losing Jobs, out of savings, and who have jobs they have stress with workloads. To deal with the stress I always choose to listen to good music old, retro classics, and jazz. They really soothe me. Walking and workout are other good options to choose from since I realize that I hardly move from my bed since the work from home has started. So by realizing that, I also started to take a few minutes’ breaks in every couple of hours. It really helps me out to calm down.

Q.- How do you stay positive in your life?
A.- I try to see, to find a good in every possible situation. Being grateful towards everything I have, I am surrounded with, I am capable of, has helped me a lot to find a reason that everything that happens around me or in my life must have some good purpose. And, also I try to be around people who are like-minded. And one more thing I recently acknowledged that, paying compliments to others, praising the beauty of people, nature, or anything you see gives you such great feelings of being happy from inside.

I hope you all are doing great in your life. Let me know if you find any of the shared tips helpful, I will be glad to know.

Also, let me know if you have something to ask I will be glad to answer. And also, tell me in the comment section that, how do you practice self-care?

Take care and have a happy 2022!!!

“When life gives you the spotlight, Dance it out”

A chance, a situation, or a perfect moment for we all keep looking to do something we want to do, to grab something we like to catch, to showcase something we are excited to exhibit. Yes, the Opportunity is what I am talking about today. Sometimes we work to create opportunities for our self and sometimes we wait for the opportunity to knock on our door. In both cases, we must be prepared and ready to catch the chance when it comes. Only waiting and working from them doesn’t help in grabbing the opportunity. I have seen many people including myself, that they keep looking for a perfect opportunity through their life to put their step into something they want to, but when the time comes in real, they get hesitant and doubleminded about taking the step. So many times I personally felt like I was not fully prepared to enter a new room when the door opens in front of me. I wanted this opportunity to show up but I didn’t prepare myself well enough to move forward confidently. My head got full of thoughts and all negative. So many doubts took place around me and made me feel a bit scared. I often lose my chances just in thinking and processing all that thoughts. And, what I understand now is that it only happens when we wanted to do something or to be something perfect. We don’t want to get fail. We don’t want to look stupid in the audience. So when the spotlight highlights us on the stage of life our throat starts to get dry and hands start to shake, and our legs start to take steps back to get hide behind the curtains. We keep missing opportunities in all these doubts and thoughts starting with “What if”. What if I fail. What if I couldn’t make it. What if people laugh at me.

After losing so many opportunities in times and then letting myself sit along with the feelings of regret when time flew, I now have learned to jump into every possible opening without thinking twice. It is better to feel fail than feel regret. I use the famous phrase “Now or never” every time I get a new opportunity in front of me to experience.  And you know what, even a few things don’t work out as what I have planned or thought, I still get a settlement with myself that I at least have tried. At least I got to know what had happened. I don’t let myself be trapped in a box of imagination that what would happen if I had that chance? No more feelings of regret.

I say now that, when life gives you the spotlight, dance it out. Don’t let the opportunity go. Always be prepared, always be ready to show your best move when you get your chance.