The One – I Love The Most (Poetry)

Hello Friends !!!

The holiday season is here and I hope you all are enjoying the season with your beloved friends and families. I wish you all a very very Happy New Year and pray for your good health and wealth.

After so long I opened my old drive where I found a few poetries that I had written back in time. I thought to share one of them and here is the chosen one I have posted down. Before you start reading let me tell you that I am not any good at poetry writing but have tried my best. 🙂 Please enjoy.

The One - I LOVE THE MOST

She deserves nothing ordinary because she is so special
She has endless beauty, she is more than an angel
Her eyes filled with light, her face where moon stays
Million words I know but nothing enough to praise
I can never forget the smile she has
I can never forget the time we had
She is the world where I lost
She is the one I love the most

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She is the friend, I need throughout life
She is the strength, I need to survive
Whenever I fell, She hold my hand
I look my back, found always she stand
She is my sun, she is my star
She is my shadow I walked with so far
At least, at last, I have reached my coast
I have found the one I love the most

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She is my secret I hid from all
From her, from world, even me at all
I never imagined, not even in blur
But it apear so clear, I am in love with her
My first ever thought, my last ever dream
When she's not around, my heart goes scream
she's guest to my heart and I'm her host
She is the one I love the most
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Thank you 🙂

Everyone Has Their Own Place To Fit In

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Sometimes we try to fit in someplace unwillingly, just because of society’s pressure or some compulsion or any other reason. wrong job, bad/toxic relationship, meaningless friendship it can be anything. It leaves nothing but misery in the end. I know many times it feels like impossible to leave that place because of many different reasons depending on particular’s life. But if you feel it is possible for you to leave that toxic place you must do. You must find your own place where you fit in. Where you can find your value. Where you can find your happiness.

If You Ever Feel Your Sky Gray, Read This.

Hello family! I hope you all are doing great and living happy, if somehow today is not a good day, this post might help you to find your way to your smile.

I know somedays sun doesn’t rise bright and warm instead it hides behind clouds and it feels like a little gray. We don’t feel like getting up from bed and getting dressed. We don’t feel like going out or talking to anyone. We keep finding a corner to stay unaccompanied, trapped in our minds. I know that all because I feel the same somedays. And surprisingly sometimes I don’t know the reason at all behind all those lousy feelings. I know it happens with you too.

A bad day only stays as long as you let it be. So what do I do when I feel my sky gray?

The first thing I do is to remind myself that “it is just a bad day, not a bad life” It helps me to diverse my thoughts and make me realize that everything will be fine.

The second thing I do is push myself to get up from bed. Believe me, it feels hard at that time but if you make you do it, you are halfway there.

The next thing I do is that I grab any of my hobbies. If you like listening to music, play some happy song or the song that makes you dance. Just don’t play any melancholy song or song that matches your vibe in that phase. If you like to paint try some painting, play with colors. Hobby keeps you busy and it helps you to change your mental state.

If you don’t feel connecting with your hobby or if you don’t have one then the other best thing is to go out for a walk. And while walking pay attention to every single thing you see on your path. A street light lamp, A Tree, Flowers, Dogs, Traffic, Buildings, Talking People, Playing Kids, etc. Anything. And try to praise them or give any compliment. No, you don’t need to say it loud, just say it in your head. This always works for me. When you praise or give compliments to others, you always find beauty in them and it makes you feel good seeing a beautiful thing around you. It automatically brings a smile to your face.

The next thing I do is try to talk to someone beloved. It always helps when you talk and share about what you are feeling. It unloads the baggage from your shoulder and makes you feel light and relaxed. If you don’t want to talk about your feeling, don’t worry, just simply talk about anything it works in the same way.

AAh… I already feel good now. 😊

So if you ever feel your sky gray just try these things I am sure you will find your blue sky back.

Remind yourself: It is just a bad day, not a bad life.

Push yourself to get up and move your body.

pick your hobby and make yourself busy in it.

Go out for a walk and give compliments to the world.

Talk to your beloved, share your load. It will always soothe you.

Remember there is always a sun behind those dark clouds and it will shine your day as soon as the cloud fades.

I hope this will help at least someone to deal with those bad days or lousy moods. I will feel glad if this helps.

Please add your thoughts in the comment so I can get more ideas to practice in such phases and also to get others now when they are in need.

Thank you for reading, Stay happy always.

Learning to detach – From the book “Tuesdays with Morrie”

¡Hola Amigos!!! Hoping you all are safe and doing well. Last week, I was reading this wonderful book “Tuesdays with Morrie” by the author Mitch Albom. The book is about sharing some really great and deep pearls of wisdom about life, by a dying man to one of his old students Mitch. They met each other every Tuesday, and Morrie shares his powerful words of wisdom and some life lessons. I don’t know if you have already read this book or not but if not, I will strongly recommend you all to read this. I believe you will find it astonishing. My today’s post is to share my feelings or can say a few thoughts on one of the topics discussed in this book “Detachment”.

On one of the Tuesdays, while discussing emotions, Morrie told Mitch that how and why learning to detach is important. However, Morrie was the person who always talk about experiencing every moment in life even good or bad. But, this time he was talking differently. He is saying to detach yourself from the experiences. It was strange for Mitch so, when Mitch gets confused about this he asked to explain and in reply Morrie said:

“Detachment doesn’t mean you don’t let the experience penetrate you. On the contrary, you let it penetrate you fully. That’s how you are able to leave it .”

“Take any emotion–love for a woman, or grief for a loved one, or what I’m going through, fear and pain from a deadly illness. If you hold back on the emotions–if you don’t allow yourself to go all the way through them–you can never get to being detached, you’re too busy being afraid. You’re afraid of the
pain, you’re afraid of the grief. You’re afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails. But by throwing yourself into these emotions, by allowing yourself to dive in, all the way, over your head even, you experience them fully and completely. You know what pain is. You know what love is. You know what grief is. And only then can you say, ‘All right. I have experienced that emotion. I recognize that emotion. Now I need to detach from that emotion for a moment.”

How thoughtful it is, no? This whole conversation gave me a reason to stop and think about what exactly Morrie is trying to teach here. We all have a habit of holding onto our past, our problems, pains, grief, regret, anger with friends, family, or any other beloved, but happiness. isn’t it? I feel that. If we go through a rough time we keep holding onto the pain of it and stay in grief for long. but oppositely, if we go through any happy moment we live that moment for the time and then we move on. Why does it take so long to move on from the pain like it is not going to end ever? I think because we don’t allow ourselves to move on. we do not allow ourselves to experience any other emotions when we are depressed. But, on the other side, we let our happiness be compromised with any other negative emotion so easily. If you are happy and someone calls you bad, you immediately get angry or sad but if you are sad and someone tells you nice things, then you do not get in a happy mood. I am sure if you take a pause and give it a thought, you will find the same.

If we hold back any of the emotions we would never be able to walk ahead in life. Life goes on and so we should. Things happen, good, bad and it keeps coming and going away. If today is bad, it is ok to feel sad, to cry, to feel pain but holding it till tomorrow makes your tomorrow bad too. I don’t know much about you but for me, I really need to practice learning to detach from not only bad emotions but good too.

I hope you will find this helpful too. Looking forward to your thoughts on this or any other topic from the book “Tuesdays with Morrie” if you have read it already. Have a great day every day!

Morrie and Mitch – Source: google images